What is Manifesting?
What is manifesting? How do you manifest your needs?
Manifesting is the process of bringing something into your life through your thoughts and actions. It is based on the belief that we are all connected and that our thoughts have the power to create our reality.
However, most people know what they don’t want. And since they know what they DON’T WANT, that’s what they put into the universe, and that’s exactly what they get – what they DON’T WANT.
Wants vs. Needs
Knowing what you want is more difficult to conceive. What you NEED, on the other hand, is a completely different question!
I find so many different qualities attractive in men, that I can’t narrow down to specifics in my perfect mate. Take eyes for example… I find men attractive who have brown eyes, blue eyes, and everything in between. How can I visualize just one man and his eye color? HOW he looks at me – that “look” is something I NEED.
Needs are much different than what we want. Wants tend to be superficial and don’t help us grow as humans. Needs on the other hand, fulfill our psyche, both emotionally, mentally and physically.
Instead of manifesting what I want – which to be frank, is a spectrum of different personalities, looks and values – I’ve now decided that the key is to Manifest what YOU NEED!! So, I have to start manifesting what I NEED.
This idea came to me recently when I found out a man I once dated thought I still had a thing for him. I didn’t. He wanted to date a woman I once considered a friend, and the idea of him pursuing her while he was still dating me absolutely nauseates me.
How could I ever trust him with my heart again? He can never be the man I need him to be.
That’s when it came to me. Why have I spent all this time trying to manifest what I want, when my wants are all over the place and, to be honest, superficial?
When I think about the man I need, I think of a man I am attracted to. A muscular and fit man, whose clothes I am dying to tear off! Chemistry is important. He’s also handy around the house, is (or was) well established in his career, financially and emotionally stable, enjoys being out with my friends, and also enjoys being with his friends, makes me laugh, is emotionally supportive and most importantly, he wants to be part of my life. That’s the man I NEED.
Short list, right? Yet so difficult to find. Especially that last part!
Who do you need in your life?
Who do you need in your life? How do you manifest it?
There are many different ways to manifest, but some common methods include:
- Visualization: This involves picturing in your mind what you want to achieve.
- Affirmations: This involves repeating positive statements about what you want to achieve.
- Action: This involves taking steps towards your goals.
It is important to be patient and persistent when manifesting. It may take time for your needs to manifest, but if you keep believing and taking action, they will eventually come to pass.
Here are some additional tips for manifesting:
- Be clear about what you need.
- Believe that you can achieve your goal. This is essential for manifesting.
- Take action towards your goal. This shows the universe that you are serious about manifesting it.
- Be patient. It may take time for your need to manifest, but it will eventually happen if you keep believing and taking action.
- Enjoy the process. Manifesting is a journey, so enjoy the ride!
